Journey of Akshay Bhatnagar is infect journey of his parents. In
Akshay words, “Parents are blessing for everyone and in my case,
they are my world too, whatever achievements I do have, my
parents‟ grit and destination made them possible. I wish every
person who is facing such challenges may have parents like
mine”.
The struggle of Akshay is also struggle of his parents, Right from
parenting, to fight for his rights along with the cause of such
children in society, they were the torchbearers.
Mrs. Pratibha Bhatnagar, mother of Akshay Bhatnagar, has been
crusader for all her life. She had to fight the battle on two fronts,
one providing the best upbringing of Akshay with limited available
resources and second, on more tough front, fighting against the
misconception of society at large. In her words. “we were shocked
when we realised that Akshay had Autism and he would not be
able to live life like any other so called „Normal‟ child. They were
quite painful early days. But we have decided to not to surrender
before the circumstances and give Akshay the best of his life, like
his elder sister.” She made a tough call and left her Government
Job so that she could dedicate her life to raise Akshay in the best
possible manner.
The agony started in beginning as no school
was ready to take him and she was constantly advised to take
admission in Special schools. But Mrs. Pratibha was firm to get
him admitted in regular school, finally with the help of young
Principal, Akshay made to the regular school. Her mother kept
her promise and made him understand the subjects like any
other students so that nobody can raise any question on Akshay‟s
ability. In the meantime, Pratibha studied further and received
diploma in Special Education and Psychological Counseling,
which helped her to understand Autism affected children and
their capabilities better and no wonder Akshay succeeded in his
10th, 12th and Graduation exams competing regular students.
While Akshay‟s mother silently working on the academic
developments, his father Mr. Navneet Bhatnagar worked really
hard to make him physically and mentally strong with outdoor
activities. He taught him the basics needed to run a normal life
and made sure Akshay never felt less than other. He taught him
activities like cycling, swimming, music and dancing. The results
that came out of all these were outstanding when Akshay secured
positions in extracurricular activities like Dance and Sports as
well. In addition to support Akshay to live a normal life, his
parents fight with the system to get his due. Witnessing the plight
of such children along with Govt. apathy, Mrs. Pratibha
established many communications with government to take steps
for the welfare of such children and compel it to constitute a
High-Powered Committee to look into this. Despite the prevailing
claim, that Govt. provides opportunity to such people, but there
was hardly any action on ground level. Mrs. Pratibha fought hard
to convince Centre and State Government and later she
approached to High Court and finally got the relief for entire
community by securing 1 percent reservation in Govt. jobs.
In Akshay‟s words, “I owe everything to my parents, despite all the
hardships I face, I always have a sense of gratitude, as everybody
is not so fortunate to blessed with such amazing parents.”